"Solitude is not something you must hope for in the future. Rather, it is a deepening of the present, and unless you look for it in the present you will never find it"
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The phrasing “deepening of the present” does the real work. Merton isn’t selling isolation or antisocial withdrawal. He’s reframing solitude as a qualitative change in how you inhabit time: less skimming, more sinking. That’s a monastic logic, but it’s also a diagnosis of distraction. If you treat the present as something to escape, you’ll turn every future into the same jittery present, just with different props. The final clause is almost accusatory - “unless you look for it” - insisting solitude is not found by accident. It’s chosen, practiced, and repeatedly reclaimed from noise.
Context matters: Merton was a Trappist monk writing mid-century spiritual work against a backdrop of Cold War anxiety, mass media, and the growing sense that modern life was colonizing the inner world. His intent isn’t quaint self-care; it’s resistance. Solitude becomes a way to recover agency, to encounter reality without the buffering effect of constant stimulation, and to meet the self - and, in his theology, God - without postponement.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Merton, Thomas. (n.d.). Solitude is not something you must hope for in the future. Rather, it is a deepening of the present, and unless you look for it in the present you will never find it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/solitude-is-not-something-you-must-hope-for-in-2091/
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Merton, Thomas. "Solitude is not something you must hope for in the future. Rather, it is a deepening of the present, and unless you look for it in the present you will never find it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/solitude-is-not-something-you-must-hope-for-in-2091/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Solitude is not something you must hope for in the future. Rather, it is a deepening of the present, and unless you look for it in the present you will never find it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/solitude-is-not-something-you-must-hope-for-in-2091/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.








