"Solitude shows us what should be; society shows us what we are"
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The paired clauses work because they reverse our comforting assumptions. We like to believe society civilizes and solitude corrupts. Cecil flips it: solitude is where the mind can draft a cleaner moral blueprint, where “what should be” is visible because the noise of advantage is muted. Society, meanwhile, is the stress test. It doesn’t ask what you think you value; it asks what you’ll trade when reputation, security, and advancement are on the line.
The subtext is quietly unsentimental. Cecil isn’t romanticizing withdrawal; he’s warning that moral aspiration is cheap until it meets crowds, institutions, and consequences. The quote carries the perspective of someone who watched policy become theater and ethics become tactics, then learned to distrust self-flattering narratives. “Should be” is an internal constitution; “are” is the audit report. In a political culture built on proximity to the crown, Cecil is telling you where the truth is found: not in your intentions, but in your behavior under pressure.
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Cecil, Robert. (2026, January 15). Solitude shows us what should be; society shows us what we are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/solitude-shows-us-what-should-be-society-shows-us-119371/
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Cecil, Robert. "Solitude shows us what should be; society shows us what we are." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/solitude-shows-us-what-should-be-society-shows-us-119371/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Solitude shows us what should be; society shows us what we are." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/solitude-shows-us-what-should-be-society-shows-us-119371/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.












