"Some guys say beauty is only skin deep. But when you walk into a party, you don't see somebody's brain. The initial contact has to be the sniffing"
About this Quote
The slyest move is his choice of metaphor. “The initial contact has to be the sniffing” drags courtship out of the realm of romance and into animal behavior, making the whole ritual feel both honest and faintly embarrassing. “Sniffing” implies instinct, appetite, a bodily sorting process that happens before ethics or intellect get to cast a vote. It also hints at performance: people arrive already “scented” with clothes, cologne, posture, reputation. Attraction becomes a kind of branding exercise, not a mystical recognition.
Coming from an actor - and specifically Caan, whose star persona traded on toughness and charisma - the comment carries an insider’s awareness that first impressions are a form of casting. Parties are auditions; bodies are resumes; the brain is the callback. Underneath the provocation is a pragmatic worldview: you can value depth and still admit the gatekeepers are visual. The line works because it’s funny, slightly crude, and uncomfortably accurate about how quickly we decide who deserves our attention.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Caan, James. (2026, January 15). Some guys say beauty is only skin deep. But when you walk into a party, you don't see somebody's brain. The initial contact has to be the sniffing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-guys-say-beauty-is-only-skin-deep-but-when-149210/
Chicago Style
Caan, James. "Some guys say beauty is only skin deep. But when you walk into a party, you don't see somebody's brain. The initial contact has to be the sniffing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-guys-say-beauty-is-only-skin-deep-but-when-149210/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Some guys say beauty is only skin deep. But when you walk into a party, you don't see somebody's brain. The initial contact has to be the sniffing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-guys-say-beauty-is-only-skin-deep-but-when-149210/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.













