"Some men have thousands of reasons why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can"
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The pivot - “all they need is one reason why they can” - is less motivational poster than choreographic principle. In dance, you don’t get to argue with gravity, injury, time, or the fact that your body is not a theory. You work with limits until a single workable opening appears: one phrase you can nail, one rehearsal where it clicks, one honest impulse that’s stronger than your dread. Graham’s subtext is that action doesn’t require perfect conditions; it requires a credible permission slip.
Context matters here. Graham built modern dance by refusing the “reasons” the culture handed her: that women should be decorative, that ballet’s rules were the only rules, that age should end a career. Her own life made the argument. When she says “one reason,” she’s talking about commitment as a discipline, not a mood - the decision to trade the comfort of excuse-making for the vulnerability of trying.
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Graham, Martha. (2026, January 15). Some men have thousands of reasons why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-men-have-thousands-of-reasons-why-they-143149/
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Graham, Martha. "Some men have thousands of reasons why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-men-have-thousands-of-reasons-why-they-143149/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Some men have thousands of reasons why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-men-have-thousands-of-reasons-why-they-143149/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.











