"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go"
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Hesse is a novelist of thresholds. In books like Siddhartha and Steppenwolf, the self is not a solid thing to defend but a process that keeps shedding skins. That makes “letting go” less a self-help slogan than a spiritual technology: you loosen your attachment to roles, relationships, identities, even narratives about what your suffering is “for,” so that a different self can emerge. The subtext is almost Buddhist, filtered through a European modernist sensibility: clinging is the real weakness because it chains you to an idea of permanence that life won’t honor.
There’s also a gentle jab at Western masculinity and moral accounting. We’re trained to treat persistence as proof of character, to confuse control with stability. Hesse pries those apart. Letting go doesn’t mean quitting; it means choosing reality over pride. In a century defined by rupture - war, dislocation, psychic fallout - the quote reads like a survival ethic: liberation as an act of discipline, not defeat.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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Hesse, Hermann. (2026, January 14). Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-of-us-think-holding-on-makes-us-strong-but-63810/
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Hesse, Hermann. "Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-of-us-think-holding-on-makes-us-strong-but-63810/.
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"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-of-us-think-holding-on-makes-us-strong-but-63810/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.








