"Some people, you have to grit your teeth in order to stay in the same room as them, but you get on and ask the questions you assume most of the people watching want to ask"
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The subtext is a rebuke to the idea that interviews should be “vibes.” Safer’s ethic is transactional and public-facing. Your job isn’t to win the subject’s affection or perform moral purity; it’s to extract clarity in real time. That’s why the second half pivots to duty: you ask “the questions you assume most of the people watching want to ask.” He’s locating authority not in the interviewer’s ego but in an imagined audience, a kind of democratic proxy. It’s also a quiet acknowledgment of guesswork. You “assume” what people want because you’re always interpreting the public, filtering their curiosity through your own judgment and constraints.
Context matters: Safer came up in an era of mass-broadcast trust and high-stakes access, when a single interview could define a politician, a general, a CEO. The quote reveals the tightrope: stay in the room (keep access), but don’t let access domesticate you. The teeth-gritting is the price of staying sharp without becoming the story.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Safer, Morley. (2026, January 15). Some people, you have to grit your teeth in order to stay in the same room as them, but you get on and ask the questions you assume most of the people watching want to ask. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-people-you-have-to-grit-your-teeth-in-order-147332/
Chicago Style
Safer, Morley. "Some people, you have to grit your teeth in order to stay in the same room as them, but you get on and ask the questions you assume most of the people watching want to ask." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-people-you-have-to-grit-your-teeth-in-order-147332/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Some people, you have to grit your teeth in order to stay in the same room as them, but you get on and ask the questions you assume most of the people watching want to ask." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-people-you-have-to-grit-your-teeth-in-order-147332/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








