"Some situations are so hopeless when you look at them from the outside you say, Why are they still married?"
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As an actor best known for playing marriage-adjacent melodrama, Braeden is also slyly commenting on the way narrative expectations contaminate our view of real couples. Outsiders are trained by movies, TV, and therapy-speak to treat relationships like plotlines: if the arc is bad, cancel the show. But the people inside the marriage aren’t watching a season; they’re managing a life. The subtext is that “hopeless” can be a misunderstanding of what the couple is actually optimizing for: stability, children, money, immigration status, caregiving, religion, fear, loyalty, habit, or the quiet belief that a bad present doesn’t erase a shared past.
The rhetorical trick is the casual “still.” It carries impatience and superiority, the assumption that leaving is the obvious, modern, self-respecting move. Braeden punctures that smugness without romanticizing endurance. He’s pointing at the blind spot in public commentary: relationships can look irrational from the curb precisely because their logic is internal, messy, and often invisible.
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Braeden, Eric. (2026, January 15). Some situations are so hopeless when you look at them from the outside you say, Why are they still married? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-situations-are-so-hopeless-when-you-look-at-140631/
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"Some situations are so hopeless when you look at them from the outside you say, Why are they still married?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-situations-are-so-hopeless-when-you-look-at-140631/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








