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"Some twins feel like they need to compare themselves to each other, but we're not that way. That's because of my parents, though, and having six kids in the family"

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It reads like a gentle refusal of the script the public has always written for the Olsens: twins as a built-in rivalry, a perpetual mirror match for magazines to score. Ashley sidesteps the bait with a calm, almost managerial tone. No drama, no “we’re best friends,” just a practical explanation. That restraint is the tell. When your childhood is a global brand, even intimacy becomes something you have to protect with tidy sentences.

The intent is reputation control, but it’s also a quiet defense of identity. “Some twins” is a distancing move: she acknowledges the stereotype without letting it attach. Then she redirects credit to her parents and the size of the family, which reframes their closeness as learned culture rather than twin mystique. Six kids dilutes the spotlight; competition becomes inefficient when attention is shared by design. The subtext: comparison is a behavior, not a destiny, and it can be untrained.

Context matters here because the Olsen twins were raised inside an industry that monetizes difference. Casting directors, tabloids, and later fashion press thrive on micro-contrasts: who’s edgier, prettier, more successful, more “adult.” Ashley’s line rejects the whole economy of ranking by implying their household modeled something else - cooperation, not scarcity. It’s a small comment with a large implication: the healthiest antidote to an attention machine isn’t a personal mantra, it’s infrastructure. Family systems, boundaries, and a sense that you’re one of many, not two halves trapped in a public comparison loop.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Olsen, Ashley. (n.d.). Some twins feel like they need to compare themselves to each other, but we're not that way. That's because of my parents, though, and having six kids in the family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-twins-feel-like-they-need-to-compare-172229/

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Olsen, Ashley. "Some twins feel like they need to compare themselves to each other, but we're not that way. That's because of my parents, though, and having six kids in the family." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-twins-feel-like-they-need-to-compare-172229/.

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"Some twins feel like they need to compare themselves to each other, but we're not that way. That's because of my parents, though, and having six kids in the family." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/some-twins-feel-like-they-need-to-compare-172229/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Ashley Olsen

Ashley Olsen (born June 13, 1986) is a Actress from USA.

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