"Something like trying to protect yourself all the time, things like trying to outwit fate. Those things can be the worst thing you can do for yourself"
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The subtext is about control as addiction. If you can’t trust the future, you start treating every decision like a defensive maneuver, every relationship like a risk assessment. That posture can look responsible from the outside, but it quietly drains the very thing art needs: openness to being changed by experience. Frusciante’s phrasing is tellingly plain. No mystical language, no romanticizing suffering. Just “something like,” as if he’s circling a feeling that’s easier to recognize than to name.
Context matters here: rock culture loves the myth of the doomed genius wrestling destiny. Frusciante flips that script. The enemy isn’t “fate” as a dramatic force; it’s the daily habit of bracing for impact. In that frame, surrender isn’t passivity. It’s choosing vulnerability over vigilance, letting life be messy enough to yield meaning, music, and the chance to become someone you couldn’t have strategized your way into.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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Frusciante, John. (2026, January 15). Something like trying to protect yourself all the time, things like trying to outwit fate. Those things can be the worst thing you can do for yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/something-like-trying-to-protect-yourself-all-the-151603/
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Frusciante, John. "Something like trying to protect yourself all the time, things like trying to outwit fate. Those things can be the worst thing you can do for yourself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/something-like-trying-to-protect-yourself-all-the-151603/.
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"Something like trying to protect yourself all the time, things like trying to outwit fate. Those things can be the worst thing you can do for yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/something-like-trying-to-protect-yourself-all-the-151603/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.







