"Sometimes a person has to go a very long distance out of his way, to come back a short distance correctly"
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The “very long distance out of his way” reads like detour-as-necessity, not romantic wandering. It suggests that people don’t change because they’ve been persuaded; they change because they’ve been worn down by consequences, embarrassment, repetition, and the slow failure of their own stories. Only after the scenic route - mistakes, misrecognitions, performative roles, lies told to keep a room calm - can someone return “a short distance” and actually land where they should have been all along. That small final move matters because it isn’t small psychologically: it’s the moment a person stops bargaining with reality.
The phrasing also smuggles in Albee’s favorite subject: the violence of “correctness” in domestic and social life. Correctly to whom? A spouse, a parent, a culture with a script for what adulthood looks like? In plays like Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, characters take enormous detours through cruelty and theatricality just to brush up against a painful truth they could never state plainly. The line functions as both permission and indictment: growth takes time, yes, but it also exposes how stubbornly we insist on taking the long way so we can pretend we had no choice.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Albee, Edward. (2026, February 20). Sometimes a person has to go a very long distance out of his way, to come back a short distance correctly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-a-person-has-to-go-a-very-long-distance-10230/
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Albee, Edward. "Sometimes a person has to go a very long distance out of his way, to come back a short distance correctly." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-a-person-has-to-go-a-very-long-distance-10230/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes a person has to go a very long distance out of his way, to come back a short distance correctly." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-a-person-has-to-go-a-very-long-distance-10230/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.











