"Sometimes guys need to cry. Some hockey players think they're too tough to cry"
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The phrasing matters. “Need” frames crying as maintenance, not weakness. Then Hull pivots to “Some hockey players think they’re too tough to cry,” and that “think” does quiet work: the problem isn’t toughness itself, it’s the performance of toughness. He’s calling out a culture where masculinity is policed through stoicism, where vulnerability is treated like a penalty you can’t afford. The subtext is blunt: the real fragility is being so scared of appearing soft that you deny basic human pressure valves.
Contextually, hockey has long rewarded silence - play through injury, keep your head down, don’t give opponents (or media) anything. Hull’s comment fits into a larger late-20th/early-21st-century shift in pro sports, where mental health, grief, and trauma have become harder to dismiss as “off-ice issues.” It also reads as a subtle critique of the locker-room hierarchy: veterans set the emotional rules. When a Hall of Famer suggests tears belong in the game’s ecosystem, he’s not just normalizing crying; he’s redefining what “tough” is allowed to look like.
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| Topic | Sadness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hull, Brett. (2026, January 15). Sometimes guys need to cry. Some hockey players think they're too tough to cry. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-guys-need-to-cry-some-hockey-players-37819/
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Hull, Brett. "Sometimes guys need to cry. Some hockey players think they're too tough to cry." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-guys-need-to-cry-some-hockey-players-37819/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes guys need to cry. Some hockey players think they're too tough to cry." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-guys-need-to-cry-some-hockey-players-37819/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




