"Sometimes I ask myself what would I be if Jenny were alive. And then I answer : I would also be alive. - Oliver"
About this Quote
The line works because it collapses the usual distinction between losing someone and losing yourself. Oliver’s “I would also be alive” is not metaphoric; it’s an admission that Jenny’s death has made him a kind of walking negative space. He’s present, but reduced to function. The colon matters: it mimics self-interrogation sliding into verdict, like he’s both witness and judge in his own emotional trial. And the simplicity of the language is the point. Big grief doesn’t need ornate sentences; it needs something clean enough to cut.
In context, this is Love Story’s signature move: taking the culturally over-sentimental genre of tragic romance and insisting on the humiliating mechanics of bereavement. The subtext is dependency without apology. Modern audiences sometimes flinch at that, trained to treat “I can’t live without you” as melodrama or codependence. Segal makes it neither. He makes it a factual report from the aftermath, where love isn’t just what made life meaningful; it’s what made life legible at all.
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| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Segal, Erich. (2026, January 15). Sometimes I ask myself what would I be if Jenny were alive. And then I answer : I would also be alive. - Oliver. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-ask-myself-what-would-i-be-if-jenny-173449/
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Segal, Erich. "Sometimes I ask myself what would I be if Jenny were alive. And then I answer : I would also be alive. - Oliver." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-ask-myself-what-would-i-be-if-jenny-173449/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes I ask myself what would I be if Jenny were alive. And then I answer : I would also be alive. - Oliver." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-ask-myself-what-would-i-be-if-jenny-173449/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











