"Sometimes I listen to songs by very smart writers who assume that the world is a civil place with certain formalities that people follow, but I don't see things that way. My own experience tells me that life is not like that"
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Her counterclaim is blunt: “I don’t see things that way.” It’s a songwriter refusing the default settings of politeness. Subtext: if your art starts from the assumption that the world is orderly, your characters will behave like good citizens in a drawing room, not like actual people under stress. Vega’s work has often thrived on street-level observation and moral abrasion, where power moves silently and the rules are selective. When she says “formalities,” she’s not just talking about manners; she’s talking about the shared fictions that keep daily life legible - until they don’t.
The real engine here is credibility. “My own experience” is an artistic manifesto disguised as modesty. She’s staking her authority on lived evidence, not inherited narratives. In an era where culture can reward polished cynicism or polished optimism, Vega argues for something harder: songs that admit the world’s rough edges without romanticizing them, and intelligence that doesn’t confuse decorum for truth.
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Vega, Suzanne. (2026, January 16). Sometimes I listen to songs by very smart writers who assume that the world is a civil place with certain formalities that people follow, but I don't see things that way. My own experience tells me that life is not like that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-listen-to-songs-by-very-smart-writers-110546/
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Vega, Suzanne. "Sometimes I listen to songs by very smart writers who assume that the world is a civil place with certain formalities that people follow, but I don't see things that way. My own experience tells me that life is not like that." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-listen-to-songs-by-very-smart-writers-110546/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes I listen to songs by very smart writers who assume that the world is a civil place with certain formalities that people follow, but I don't see things that way. My own experience tells me that life is not like that." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-listen-to-songs-by-very-smart-writers-110546/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




