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Daily Inspiration Quote by Katharine Hepburn

"Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then"

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Hepburn’s line lands like a martini-dry toast to romance: affectionate, amused, and edged with exasperation. It’s not a manifesto against love so much as a rebuke to the idea that intimacy must mean constant proximity. The joke works because it pretends to offer a tidy, suburban solution to a messy human problem: keep desire and companionship, ditch the daily grind of negotiation. “Next door” is domesticity with an escape hatch.

Coming from Hepburn, the subtext hums with her public persona - self-possessed, unsentimental, allergic to being managed. In classic Hollywood’s era of carefully policed femininity, she made independence look not just virtuous but glamorous. The quip turns the traditional script inside out: marriage as cohabitation and mutual caretaking becomes, instead, a visiting arrangement where each person retains territory. It’s a fantasy of boundaries, a refusal to let love become a job with a time clock.

There’s also a sly acknowledgment of gender as a social performance. “Suit each other” isn’t about biology; it’s about the friction created by roles men and women are asked to play, especially in mid-century heterosexual courtship. Hepburn isn’t denying compatibility; she’s suggesting the standard packaging is the problem. The punchline lets her critique the institution without sounding bitter - a protective layer of wit that keeps the sentiment sharp rather than sentimental.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hepburn, Katharine. (2026, January 17). Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-wonder-if-men-and-women-really-suit-28663/

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Hepburn, Katharine. "Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-wonder-if-men-and-women-really-suit-28663/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-wonder-if-men-and-women-really-suit-28663/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Katharine Hepburn (May 12, 1907 - June 29, 2003) was a Actress from USA.

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