"Sometimes I would almost rather have people take away years of my life than take away a moment"
About this Quote
The phrasing “almost rather” is doing quiet heavy lifting. Bailey isn’t romanticizing self-destruction; she’s admitting a temptation. It’s the seductive logic of anyone who’s been truly alive in a flash and then forced back into the long hallway of ordinary days. “Take away years” sounds brutal, but it’s also impersonal, like a bureaucratic subtraction. “Take away a moment” is intimate, invasive, the theft of agency. She’s defending the smallest unit of lived experience against the way life gets measured and managed.
There’s also a cultural subtext for a Black woman entertainer in mid-century America: time can be taken from you in countless systemic ways, but the moment - the chosen moment of joy, command, radiance - is a form of sovereignty. Bailey built a career on turning rooms, often hostile or patronizing, into her territory. The quote isn’t just about pleasure; it’s about control. Better a shorter life fully possessed than a long one edited down to nothing.
Quote Details
| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bailey, Pearl. (2026, January 16). Sometimes I would almost rather have people take away years of my life than take away a moment. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-would-almost-rather-have-people-take-92969/
Chicago Style
Bailey, Pearl. "Sometimes I would almost rather have people take away years of my life than take away a moment." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-would-almost-rather-have-people-take-92969/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes I would almost rather have people take away years of my life than take away a moment." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-i-would-almost-rather-have-people-take-92969/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








