"Sometimes the only way you can feel good about yourself is by making someone else look bad. And I'm tired of making other people feel good about themselves"
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Then the pivot turns it from observation into a jab. “And I’m tired of making other people feel good about themselves” is a comic reversal that exposes the whole economy of shame. Suddenly, the speaker isn’t the bully but the designated loser, the person being used as the contrast that lets everyone else feel taller. It’s a punchline that doubles as a grievance: I’ve been cast in the role of the pathetic one long enough.
As an actor’s line, it also reads like a meta-complaint about performance and typecasting. Comedy often relies on a sacrificial figure - the dope, the schlub, the butt of the joke. Castellaneta, whose career is entangled with one of TV’s most famous lovable idiots, knows how the crowd’s pleasure can depend on someone’s perpetual smallness. The subtext is less “be nicer” and more “stop outsourcing your confidence.” It’s not moralizing; it’s a refusal to keep playing the human stepstool.
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Castellaneta, Dan. (2026, January 17). Sometimes the only way you can feel good about yourself is by making someone else look bad. And I'm tired of making other people feel good about themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-the-only-way-you-can-feel-good-about-47032/
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Castellaneta, Dan. "Sometimes the only way you can feel good about yourself is by making someone else look bad. And I'm tired of making other people feel good about themselves." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-the-only-way-you-can-feel-good-about-47032/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes the only way you can feel good about yourself is by making someone else look bad. And I'm tired of making other people feel good about themselves." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-the-only-way-you-can-feel-good-about-47032/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









