"Sometimes we question things that we have done in our lives but how many times do we question what we haven't done in someone else's"
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The pivot from “what we have done” to “what we haven’t done in someone else’s” shifts guilt from action to omission, and from self to relationship. It’s not just “I should’ve trained harder,” it’s “I didn’t show up,” “I didn’t call,” “I let someone carry the weight alone.” That’s a harder category of wrongdoing to measure because it’s made of maybes. No dramatic scene, no clear villain, just an absence that still leaves consequences.
Coming from Thorpe, the subtext lands with extra force. Elite sport is built around measurable performance and public scrutiny; your errors are televised, replayed, archived. But the emotional costs of that life - distance, missed milestones, neglected friendships - don’t come with splits and medals. The quote quietly resists the culture of individual achievement by asking a relational question: not “How did I perform?” but “Who did my choices leave behind?” It’s a call to broaden the moral accounting beyond personal regret into empathy, where responsibility includes the things you didn’t do when it mattered.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thorpe, Ian. (2026, January 16). Sometimes we question things that we have done in our lives but how many times do we question what we haven't done in someone else's. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-we-question-things-that-we-have-done-in-133054/
Chicago Style
Thorpe, Ian. "Sometimes we question things that we have done in our lives but how many times do we question what we haven't done in someone else's." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-we-question-things-that-we-have-done-in-133054/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes we question things that we have done in our lives but how many times do we question what we haven't done in someone else's." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-we-question-things-that-we-have-done-in-133054/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.



