"Sometimes when I see a performance that really takes me, I struggle. How can I express this to this person, I want this person to know how I felt. I want to get this across, and it's not very easy"
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The intent here isn’t to elevate art into mysticism; it’s to honor the awkward, practical problem of gratitude. Astin isn’t talking about critique, awards, or “supporting the arts” as a civic virtue. He’s talking about that private, urgent moment after you’ve been moved and you want to make contact with the person who did it. The repeated “this person” is telling. He keeps it specific, almost anonymous, as if naming would turn a sincere impulse into theater. That repetition also underlines how emotion can make us linguistically clumsy: we circle the feeling because the straight line won’t come.
The subtext is professional humility. Coming from an actor, this is a quiet confession that even insiders can’t fully translate what happens in the room when craft becomes alchemy. It also hints at the asymmetry of performance: one person offers a curated vulnerability, the other receives it raw, then tries to pay it back with words that inevitably sound flatter than the experience.
In a culture trained to respond with instant hot takes, Astin defends a slower, more intimate register: the desire not just to consume a moment, but to be changed by it - and to let the artist know.
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Astin, John. (2026, January 15). Sometimes when I see a performance that really takes me, I struggle. How can I express this to this person, I want this person to know how I felt. I want to get this across, and it's not very easy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-when-i-see-a-performance-that-really-156423/
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Astin, John. "Sometimes when I see a performance that really takes me, I struggle. How can I express this to this person, I want this person to know how I felt. I want to get this across, and it's not very easy." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-when-i-see-a-performance-that-really-156423/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes when I see a performance that really takes me, I struggle. How can I express this to this person, I want this person to know how I felt. I want to get this across, and it's not very easy." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-when-i-see-a-performance-that-really-156423/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







