"Sometimes when you start losing detail, whether it's in music or in life, something as small as failing to be polite, you start to lose substance"
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The clever move is how he smuggles morality into craft. “Failing to be polite” isn’t manners-for-manners’ sake; it’s a diagnostic. Politeness, in this frame, is attention to other people’s rhythms and limits, the social equivalent of staying in tune. When courtesy drops, you’re no longer listening. And when you’re no longer listening, the thing you’re making together - a performance, a relationship, a life - starts shedding meaning.
Context matters: Goodman’s era prized professionalism as survival. In the high-stakes world of touring bands and segregated stages, competence and conduct weren’t separate categories; they were a single reputation. His subtext is warning against romanticizing “vibe” over rigor. Substance isn’t an abstract virtue you either have or don’t. It’s the cumulative result of small choices repeated until they become a standard - or until they quietly stop.
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Goodman, Benny. (2026, January 17). Sometimes when you start losing detail, whether it's in music or in life, something as small as failing to be polite, you start to lose substance. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-when-you-start-losing-detail-whether-64087/
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Goodman, Benny. "Sometimes when you start losing detail, whether it's in music or in life, something as small as failing to be polite, you start to lose substance." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-when-you-start-losing-detail-whether-64087/.
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"Sometimes when you start losing detail, whether it's in music or in life, something as small as failing to be polite, you start to lose substance." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-when-you-start-losing-detail-whether-64087/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




