"Sometimes you are being interviewed by someone and you think, if I knew this person they'd be my best friend. Other times you're being interviewed by a complete jerk"
About this Quote
Then she flips it: "Other times" you're stuck with "a complete jerk". The bluntness is the point. It's not just about rudeness; it's about power. Interviews can turn predatory when the questions are designed to trap, reduce, or extract a headline rather than reveal a mind. Guest's casual phrasing ("complete jerk") refuses the high-minded decorum expected of authors, which is its own quiet rebellion against the industry politeness that often protects bad behavior.
The subtext is professional and psychological: writers spend their lives controlling voice on the page, then get handed over to someone else's framing in public. Guest compresses that vulnerability into two types of encounters - communion and collision - and exposes how much of an "author persona" is really a negotiation with whoever holds the microphone.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Guest, Judith. (2026, January 17). Sometimes you are being interviewed by someone and you think, if I knew this person they'd be my best friend. Other times you're being interviewed by a complete jerk. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-you-are-being-interviewed-by-someone-68604/
Chicago Style
Guest, Judith. "Sometimes you are being interviewed by someone and you think, if I knew this person they'd be my best friend. Other times you're being interviewed by a complete jerk." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-you-are-being-interviewed-by-someone-68604/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes you are being interviewed by someone and you think, if I knew this person they'd be my best friend. Other times you're being interviewed by a complete jerk." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-you-are-being-interviewed-by-someone-68604/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







