"Sometimes you get to a place in life where you feel you've made some choices, and maybe they weren't the right choices, and that it's all coming to an end"
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The phrasing does a lot of work. "Sometimes" softens the admission, giving it room to be common without being melodramatic. "You get to a place" turns crisis into geography, as if regret is a destination you arrive at rather than a personal failing. Then he doubles down on agency and doubt in the same breath: "you feel you've made some choices" concedes ownership, but "maybe they weren't the right choices" refuses the clean closure of confession. It's less repentance than reckoning.
The final turn, "and that it's all coming to an end", is where the athlete context matters most. In sports, endings are constant: careers end abruptly, bodies end arguments, relevance ends quietly. For a player-coach figure like Singletary, the subtext is also about identity foreclosure. When the role you've trained for your whole life starts slipping, the question isn't just what you did wrong; it's who you are without the uniform.
It works because it rejects the motivational poster version of resilience and instead gives us the more honest tension: you can be tough, accomplished, and still terrified of the math of your own choices.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Singletary, Mike. (2026, January 15). Sometimes you get to a place in life where you feel you've made some choices, and maybe they weren't the right choices, and that it's all coming to an end. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-you-get-to-a-place-in-life-where-you-152466/
Chicago Style
Singletary, Mike. "Sometimes you get to a place in life where you feel you've made some choices, and maybe they weren't the right choices, and that it's all coming to an end." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-you-get-to-a-place-in-life-where-you-152466/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sometimes you get to a place in life where you feel you've made some choices, and maybe they weren't the right choices, and that it's all coming to an end." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sometimes-you-get-to-a-place-in-life-where-you-152466/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.



