"Sometimes, you have to go through a phase whether you like it or not"
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There is a quietly punk realism baked into Tina Weymouth's line: growth is not always chosen, and it rarely arrives on a schedule that matches your taste. Coming from a musician whose career was shaped inside a band built on reinvention and friction, the quote reads less like self-help and more like backstage truth. A "phase" sounds temporary, almost dismissible, but Weymouth treats it as compulsory. You don't get to opt out of the messy middle just because it clashes with your self-image or your plans.
The intent feels pragmatic: a reminder that creative lives, like actual lives, move in cycles. You can fight the awkward period, narrate it as failure, or you can clock it for what it is: transit. The subtext is about surrender without defeat. Not "accept mediocrity", but accept process. That matters in music, where audiences want the polished album and rarely tolerate the demo-stage confusion it takes to get there. Calling it a phase also punctures the drama; it refuses to romanticize suffering while still granting it meaning.
Context deepens the bite. Weymouth emerged in a scene where identity, genre, and even gender roles in bands were constantly contested. Phases weren't indulgences; they were survival strategies. The line nods to the unglamorous truth behind reinvention: sometimes the only way out is through, and the through-part is rarely curated for your comfort.
The intent feels pragmatic: a reminder that creative lives, like actual lives, move in cycles. You can fight the awkward period, narrate it as failure, or you can clock it for what it is: transit. The subtext is about surrender without defeat. Not "accept mediocrity", but accept process. That matters in music, where audiences want the polished album and rarely tolerate the demo-stage confusion it takes to get there. Calling it a phase also punctures the drama; it refuses to romanticize suffering while still granting it meaning.
Context deepens the bite. Weymouth emerged in a scene where identity, genre, and even gender roles in bands were constantly contested. Phases weren't indulgences; they were survival strategies. The line nods to the unglamorous truth behind reinvention: sometimes the only way out is through, and the through-part is rarely curated for your comfort.
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