"Somewhere we turn ourselves into victims instead of being the powerful women we really are meant to be"
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The most charged verb here is “turn.” It implies agency, which is both empowering and unsettling. Light isn’t denying harm or minimizing systemic power; she’s asking why survival strategies can harden into identity. That’s the subtext: the line between acknowledging injury and building a self-story that makes change feel impossible. “Victims” becomes less a diagnosis than a trap - a narrative that can anesthetize anger, flatten ambition, and recruit other people to take the wheel.
Then she pivots: “powerful women we really are meant to be.” The phrasing is intentionally motivational, almost mantra-like, but it’s not empty hype. Coming from an actress, it reads as meta-commentary on roles: who gets cast as fragile, who gets framed as capable, who learns to audition for approval instead of authority. “Meant to be” signals inheritance and entitlement - power as birthright, not permission slip.
In a post-#MeToo landscape, the quote threads a needle: validating women’s experiences of being wronged while insisting the end goal isn’t just being believed, it’s being unbound.
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Light, Judith. (2026, January 16). Somewhere we turn ourselves into victims instead of being the powerful women we really are meant to be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/somewhere-we-turn-ourselves-into-victims-instead-103275/
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Light, Judith. "Somewhere we turn ourselves into victims instead of being the powerful women we really are meant to be." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/somewhere-we-turn-ourselves-into-victims-instead-103275/.
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"Somewhere we turn ourselves into victims instead of being the powerful women we really are meant to be." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/somewhere-we-turn-ourselves-into-victims-instead-103275/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.







