"Soon I realized that if beauty equalled forgiveness, I was never going to be forgiven"
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A gut-punch of a line that turns glamour into a moral ledger. Kevyn Aucoin, the makeup artist who helped define late-90s beauty culture, isn’t romanticizing ugliness or fishing for pity. He’s naming a brutal social math: prettiness buys you grace, plainness gets you cross-examined. By framing it as “beauty equalled forgiveness,” he exposes how often we treat attractiveness like a character reference, a soft-focus alibi that lets people move through the world with fewer consequences and less scrutiny.
The sting is in the conditional. “If” makes it sound like a rule he tested and found true, not a metaphor he’s tossing off. “Soon I realized” reads like a childhood education in cruelty: the moment you learn that punishment and mercy aren’t distributed evenly, and that the body is part of the evidence. The final clause, “I was never going to be forgiven,” widens the issue beyond looks into identity. Aucoin grew up queer in the South, and his career unfolded in an industry that monetizes desirability while enforcing narrow standards. The line hints at the double bind: you can master the tools of transformation for others, yet still feel excluded from the social absolution beauty seems to grant.
It also works because it’s quietly accusatory. Forgiveness is supposed to be moral, private, earned. He’s pointing out how often it’s aesthetic, public, and purchased. In a culture that confuses being appealing with being innocent, this isn’t just personal lament; it’s indictment.
The sting is in the conditional. “If” makes it sound like a rule he tested and found true, not a metaphor he’s tossing off. “Soon I realized” reads like a childhood education in cruelty: the moment you learn that punishment and mercy aren’t distributed evenly, and that the body is part of the evidence. The final clause, “I was never going to be forgiven,” widens the issue beyond looks into identity. Aucoin grew up queer in the South, and his career unfolded in an industry that monetizes desirability while enforcing narrow standards. The line hints at the double bind: you can master the tools of transformation for others, yet still feel excluded from the social absolution beauty seems to grant.
It also works because it’s quietly accusatory. Forgiveness is supposed to be moral, private, earned. He’s pointing out how often it’s aesthetic, public, and purchased. In a culture that confuses being appealing with being innocent, this isn’t just personal lament; it’s indictment.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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