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Fatherhood Quote by Harriet Ann Jacobs

"Southern women often marry a man knowing that he is the father of many little slaves. They do not trouble themselves about it"

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Jacobs drops this line like a match in a parlor full of lace: calm, observational, and meant to scorch. The bluntness is the point. By using “often” and “do not trouble themselves,” she refuses to let the reader hide behind the comforting fiction of a few exceptional monsters. She’s indicting a social pattern, not just individual cruelty.

The phrase “many little slaves” is doing multiple jobs at once. It’s a clinical headcount and a moral rebuke. “Little” strips away plantation euphemisms and forces the image of children as inventory, while “father” pins responsibility where Southern mythology tried to diffuse it: on the white patriarch whose sexual access to enslaved women was treated as entitlement. Jacobs also aims her critique at white womanhood, a category often romanticized in pro-slavery culture as delicate, virtuous, and in need of protection. Here, those “Southern women” are neither unaware nor powerless; they are complicit managers of denial.

Context matters: Jacobs wrote from inside the system as an enslaved woman, and Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl was crafted to reach Northern female readers who might recognize marriage, propriety, and motherhood as moral touchstones. She weaponizes those touchstones. The subtext is brutal: the “sanctity” of the Southern household depends on overlooking rape, coercion, and mixed-race children sold like surplus. The line doesn’t ask for sympathy; it demands that readers connect the domestic ideals of the era to the machinery that made them possible.

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Jacobs, Harriet Ann. (2026, January 15). Southern women often marry a man knowing that he is the father of many little slaves. They do not trouble themselves about it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/southern-women-often-marry-a-man-knowing-that-he-146358/

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Jacobs, Harriet Ann. "Southern women often marry a man knowing that he is the father of many little slaves. They do not trouble themselves about it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/southern-women-often-marry-a-man-knowing-that-he-146358/.

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"Southern women often marry a man knowing that he is the father of many little slaves. They do not trouble themselves about it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/southern-women-often-marry-a-man-knowing-that-he-146358/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Harriet Ann Jacobs (February 11, 1813 - March 7, 1897) was a Writer from USA.

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