"Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong"
About this Quote
The intent is practical as much as ethical. Lincoln is speaking into a political culture of factions, patronage, and personality - the very conditions that make it easy to confuse "my side" with "the good". He offers a portable rule for citizens and operatives alike: alliance is conditional, accountability is mandatory. That has the cadence of leadership, but the logic of a democratic safety mechanism. It trains people to treat power as provisional.
The subtext is a warning about the costs of convenience. Standing with someone while they are right is easy; the real test is "part with him when he goes wrong", a phrase that anticipates the social penalties of dissent: broken friendships, lost jobs, accusations of betrayal. Lincoln normalizes that rupture as the price of integrity.
Rhetorically, the line works because it repeats "stand" like a drumbeat, then pivots on "part" - a clean, cold verb that refuses negotiation. Its a standard meant to survive charismatic leaders, including Lincoln himself.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lincoln, Abraham. (2026, January 15). Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stand-with-anybody-that-stands-right-stand-with-25176/
Chicago Style
Lincoln, Abraham. "Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stand-with-anybody-that-stands-right-stand-with-25176/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stand-with-anybody-that-stands-right-stand-with-25176/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







