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Leadership Quote by Abraham Lincoln

"Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong"

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Loyalty, Lincoln suggests, is only honorable when it has an escape clause. In one tight sentence he rewires the idea of solidarity away from tribe and toward principle: stand with a person, not because theyre yours, but because theyre right. Then, just as quickly, he denies comfort to the kind of allegiance politics feeds on. The second half lands like a moral snap: you dont just stop cheering when the cause sours; you leave.

The intent is practical as much as ethical. Lincoln is speaking into a political culture of factions, patronage, and personality - the very conditions that make it easy to confuse "my side" with "the good". He offers a portable rule for citizens and operatives alike: alliance is conditional, accountability is mandatory. That has the cadence of leadership, but the logic of a democratic safety mechanism. It trains people to treat power as provisional.

The subtext is a warning about the costs of convenience. Standing with someone while they are right is easy; the real test is "part with him when he goes wrong", a phrase that anticipates the social penalties of dissent: broken friendships, lost jobs, accusations of betrayal. Lincoln normalizes that rupture as the price of integrity.

Rhetorically, the line works because it repeats "stand" like a drumbeat, then pivots on "part" - a clean, cold verb that refuses negotiation. Its a standard meant to survive charismatic leaders, including Lincoln himself.

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TopicHonesty & Integrity
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Verified source: Speech on the Repeal of the Missouri Compromise (Peoria A... (Abraham Lincoln, 1854)
Text match: 95.00%   Provider: Cross-Reference
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Some men, mostly whigs, who condemn the repeal of the Missouri Compromise, nevertheless hesitate to go for its restoration, lest they be thrown in company with the abolitionist. Will they allow me as an old whig to tell them good humoredly, that I think this is very silly? Stand with anybody that stands RIGHT. Stand with him while he is right and PART with him when he goes wrong. (Page 273 (in Basler ed., Collected Works, Vol. 2)). This line occurs in Lincoln’s Peoria Address (often dated October 16, 1854). A primary-source pathway for the wording is the contemporary newspaper printing(s) of the speech (commonly noted as appearing in the Illinois State Journal / Illinois Journal in late Oct. 1854) and the later authoritative transcription in Roy P. Basler (ed.), The Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln (Rutgers University Press, 1953), Vol. 2, p. 273. The University of Michigan’s digital facsimile of Basler’s edition shows the quote on the page marked 'Page 273'. The National Park Service also reproduces the memorial-building inscription that attributes the line to 'Peoria Ill. Oct. 16, 1854,' corroborating the occasion/date, though the NPS page is not the first publication.
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... Stand with anybody that stands RIGHT . Stand with him while he is right and PART with him when he goes wrong . AB...
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Lincoln, Abraham. (2026, March 3). Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stand-with-anybody-that-stands-right-stand-with-25176/

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Lincoln, Abraham. "Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong." FixQuotes. March 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stand-with-anybody-that-stands-right-stand-with-25176/.

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"Stand with anybody that stands right, stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong." FixQuotes, 3 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stand-with-anybody-that-stands-right-stand-with-25176/. Accessed 27 Mar. 2026.

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Abraham Lincoln (February 12, 1809 - April 15, 1865) was a President from USA.

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