"Still and all, why bother? Here's my answer. Many people need desperately to receive this message: I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. You are not alone"
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The intent is pragmatic and oddly tender: literature as signal flare. Vonnegut isn’t claiming art will redeem society or fix politics; he’s offering a smaller, more radical service - recognition. That line, "I feel and think much as you do", is an act of fraternization across the page. It’s also a quiet rebuke to a culture that trains people to treat their private anxieties as personal defects. If you’re lonely in your obsessions, if you care about "things" that get dismissed as too sad, too strange, too earnest, the book becomes proof of life: someone else noticed.
The subtext is Vonnegut’s signature double-bind: he distrusts grand meanings, yet he can’t stop reaching for human ones. "Although most people do not care" carries his cynicism - the bleak assessment of mass indifference, the social machinery that flattens nuance. "You are not alone" then lands like a counterspell. It’s not motivational poster comfort; it’s community built from shared alienation. In the context of Vonnegut’s postwar worldview - skeptical of institutions, alert to cruelty, allergic to self-seriousness - this is his best case for bothering at all: not salvation, solidarity.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vonnegut, Kurt. (2026, January 17). Still and all, why bother? Here's my answer. Many people need desperately to receive this message: I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. You are not alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/still-and-all-why-bother-heres-my-answer-many-32389/
Chicago Style
Vonnegut, Kurt. "Still and all, why bother? Here's my answer. Many people need desperately to receive this message: I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. You are not alone." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/still-and-all-why-bother-heres-my-answer-many-32389/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Still and all, why bother? Here's my answer. Many people need desperately to receive this message: I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. You are not alone." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/still-and-all-why-bother-heres-my-answer-many-32389/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.







