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Life & Wisdom Quote by Walt Whitman

"Stranger, if you passing meet me and desire to speak to me, why should you not speak to me? And why should I not speak to you?"

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Whitman opens with a handshake disguised as a question, and the audacity is the point. “Stranger” is both a label and an invitation: the most anonymous relationship in modern life gets elevated into something nearly sacred. The line’s power comes from its refusal to treat distance as natural. He doesn’t flatter the reader into intimacy; he argues for it, casually, as if the barriers are the strange part. Why shouldn’t we speak? Exactly: why have we agreed not to?

The rhetoric is deceptively simple. Whitman doubles the question, mirrors “you” and “me,” and makes conversation sound like a basic civic right. That symmetry matters. In mid-19th-century America, public life was expanding, cities were swelling, and social hierarchies were still rigidly policed by class, gender, and race. Whitman’s democratic imagination tries to short-circuit those gatekeeping reflexes. The stranger isn’t a threat or a curiosity; the stranger is a potential comrade. The repeated “why” is a quiet indictment of custom.

There’s also an erotic, intimate undertow Whitman rarely bothers to hide. Addressing a passerby collapses public and private space: the street becomes a site of possibility, where the body and the voice can cross boundaries that society insists are fixed. It’s quintessential Whitman: an America dreamed not as an abstract nation, but as a series of bold, unembarrassed encounters. The poem doesn’t beg for connection; it presumes we’re built for it, and challenges the reader to live up to that premise.

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TopicFriendship
SourceWalt Whitman, Leaves of Grass — "Song of Myself", Section 6 (contains the line beginning "Stranger, if you passing meet me..."). Appears in 1855 and later editions.
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Walt Whitman

Walt Whitman (May 31, 1819 - March 26, 1892) was a Poet from USA.

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