"Strong people are made by opposition like kites that go up against the wind"
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The line also smuggles in a bracing moral about agency. Kites don't "overcome" the wind by overpowering it; they harness it through design and tension. That implies strength isn't macho invulnerability. It's structure: the right frame, the taut string, the willingness to be pulled. The subtext is that opposition is inevitable, but outcomes aren't. You can be shredded by the gusts or shaped to ride them, and the difference is preparation, adaptability, and constraint accepted as discipline.
Context matters: Harris lived through late-Victorian moralism, industrial churn, and a literary culture obsessed with will, grit, and the making of men. His own notoriety as a contrarian biographer and social critic gives the aphorism an edge: opposition isn't just personal hardship, it's social friction - censorship, prudery, class pressure - the forces that try to keep you down. Harris flips them into fuel. It's a provocative, almost cynical optimism: the world won't stop resisting you, so you'd better learn to fly on that resistance rather than wait for fair weather.
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Harris, Frank. "Strong people are made by opposition like kites that go up against the wind." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/strong-people-are-made-by-opposition-like-kites-51716/.
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"Strong people are made by opposition like kites that go up against the wind." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/strong-people-are-made-by-opposition-like-kites-51716/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





