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"Stupid as a man, say the women: cowardly as a woman, say the men. Stupidity in a woman is unwomanly"

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Nietzsche lobs this line like a broken bottle into polite conversation: not to settle the “battle of the sexes,” but to expose how contempt gets gendered, recycled, and then dressed up as common sense. The structure is a nasty little mirror. Women accuse men of stupidity; men accuse women of cowardice. Each side picks the insult that wounds the other’s prized self-image: men as rational agents, women as morally brave or emotionally resilient. Then comes the kicker: “Stupidity in a woman is unwomanly.” Not because stupidity is rare, but because “womanly” is a moving target policed by whoever holds the megaphone.

The subtext is Nietzsche at his most cynical about moral categories: society doesn’t just judge behavior, it rewrites identity to make judgment feel inevitable. If a man is stupid, it’s still legible as “a man’s” flaw. If a woman is stupid, she’s cast as a traitor to her type. That asymmetry reveals how gender works as a social alibi: it turns prejudice into taxonomy. “Unwomanly” is less a description than a sentence.

Context matters. Nietzsche wrote inside a 19th-century Europe steeped in pseudo-scientific essentialism and bourgeois gender roles. He’s both participant and saboteur, repeating misogynistic tropes while also showing how easily they’re manufactured. The line’s effectiveness is its discomfort: it forces the reader to hear the ventriloquism of “the women” and “the men,” and to notice how quickly an insult becomes a theory of nature.

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Later attribution: The Very Best of Friedrich Nietzsche (David Graham, 2014) modern compilation
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Nietzsche, Friedrich. (2026, February 7). Stupid as a man, say the women: cowardly as a woman, say the men. Stupidity in a woman is unwomanly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stupid-as-a-man-say-the-women-cowardly-as-a-woman-286/

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Nietzsche, Friedrich. "Stupid as a man, say the women: cowardly as a woman, say the men. Stupidity in a woman is unwomanly." FixQuotes. February 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stupid-as-a-man-say-the-women-cowardly-as-a-woman-286/.

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"Stupid as a man, say the women: cowardly as a woman, say the men. Stupidity in a woman is unwomanly." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/stupid-as-a-man-say-the-women-cowardly-as-a-woman-286/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Friedrich Nietzsche (October 15, 1844 - August 25, 1900) was a Philosopher from Germany.

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