Skip to main content

Success Quote by Sting

"Success always necessitates a degree of ruthlessness. Given the choice of friendship or success, I'd probably choose success"

About this Quote

Sting’s line lands like a confession that knows it won’t be punished. Coming from a musician whose career spans punk’s bare-knuckle hustle to stadium-level polish, it reads less like cartoon villainy than an artist admitting the industry’s unspoken job description: be liked if you can, but be unstoppable if you must. The blunt “always” is doing heavy lifting. It universalizes what’s often framed as a personal failing, laundering ambition into inevitability. If ruthlessness is required, then choosing it becomes pragmatic rather than cruel.

The quote also performs a particular kind of honesty-as-branding. By floating “I’d probably choose success,” he dodges the full absolutism of “I would,” keeping a sliver of human hesitation while still staking his claim. That “probably” is a pressure valve, a way of sounding self-aware without giving up the premise. It’s the language of someone who understands how audiences romanticize authenticity but still want winners.

Subtextually, “friendship or success” is a false binary designed to reveal priorities, not reality. Most careers involve messy overlaps: collaborators become friends, friends become competitors, loyalty becomes leverage. Sting’s framing suggests he’s felt the cost of momentum - the band dynamics, the departures, the strategic decisions that look cold only after they work. In a culture that fetishizes “nice,” the quote dares you to admit what you already suspect: success is often less about talent than about the willingness to disappoint people on schedule.

Quote Details

TopicSuccess
SourceHelp us find the source
Cite

Citation Formats

APA Style (7th ed.)
Sting. (2026, January 16). Success always necessitates a degree of ruthlessness. Given the choice of friendship or success, I'd probably choose success. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/success-always-necessitates-a-degree-of-86284/

Chicago Style
Sting. "Success always necessitates a degree of ruthlessness. Given the choice of friendship or success, I'd probably choose success." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/success-always-necessitates-a-degree-of-86284/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Success always necessitates a degree of ruthlessness. Given the choice of friendship or success, I'd probably choose success." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/success-always-necessitates-a-degree-of-86284/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

More Quotes by Sting Add to List
Success or Friendship: Sting on Ruthlessness in Achievement
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

Sting

Sting (born October 2, 1951) is a Musician from United Kingdom.

48 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes

Vanessa Williams, Musician
Jean Giraudoux, Dramatist
Mia Hamm, Athlete
Mia Hamm