"Success? You can't get a big head about it. When people stare at me, they could be whispering to their friend, 'That guy sucks! Have you seen him before? He's horrible.'"
About this Quote
The intent is preemptive self-defense. If you assume the crowd might be thinking “he’s horrible,” then praise can’t intoxicate you and criticism can’t surprise you. It’s a comic version of lowering your expectations so reality can’t humiliate you. The subtext is classically show-business: success is fragile, public opinion is fickle, and being seen doesn’t mean being respected. He’s also puncturing the idea that fame grants clarity. You can’t actually know what people mean when they look at you; the celebrity mind has to fill in the blanks, and Spade fills them with worst-case scenarios.
Context matters: a comedian from the Saturday Night Live pipeline, trained in ruthless rooms and tabloid-era scrutiny, talking like someone who’s watched applause turn to “who does he think he is?” overnight. It’s funny because it’s self-deprecation, but it lands because it’s a survival strategy disguised as a punchline.
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| Topic | Success |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Spade, David. (2026, January 15). Success? You can't get a big head about it. When people stare at me, they could be whispering to their friend, 'That guy sucks! Have you seen him before? He's horrible.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/success-you-cant-get-a-big-head-about-it-when-143658/
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Spade, David. "Success? You can't get a big head about it. When people stare at me, they could be whispering to their friend, 'That guy sucks! Have you seen him before? He's horrible.'." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/success-you-cant-get-a-big-head-about-it-when-143658/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Success? You can't get a big head about it. When people stare at me, they could be whispering to their friend, 'That guy sucks! Have you seen him before? He's horrible.'." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/success-you-cant-get-a-big-head-about-it-when-143658/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.









