"Sure, I've been a victim, but in retrospect, most of it has been of my own making. I allowed it to happen"
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The subtext is about consent in slow motion. “Most of it has been of my own making” suggests not one catastrophic decision but a series of small yeses: taking the gig, trusting the wrong people, tolerating exploitative dynamics because the show must go on. In entertainment, victimhood often comes bundled with a ready-made villain. Newton sidesteps that simplicity and points to something messier: how ambition can quietly negotiate away your boundaries.
“I allowed it to happen” is the harshest clause because it risks sounding like self-blame, yet it’s also a bid for control. For a musician whose brand depended on polish and resilience, admitting passivity is its own kind of defiance. Culturally, it reads like an older-school showman translating a modern therapy-world concept - accountability - into the language of grit. The intent isn’t confession for its own sake; it’s a warning wrapped in humility: fame doesn’t just take from you. It asks what you’re willing to surrender, one compromise at a time.
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Newton, Wayne. (2026, January 16). Sure, I've been a victim, but in retrospect, most of it has been of my own making. I allowed it to happen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sure-ive-been-a-victim-but-in-retrospect-most-of-108232/
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Newton, Wayne. "Sure, I've been a victim, but in retrospect, most of it has been of my own making. I allowed it to happen." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sure-ive-been-a-victim-but-in-retrospect-most-of-108232/.
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"Sure, I've been a victim, but in retrospect, most of it has been of my own making. I allowed it to happen." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sure-ive-been-a-victim-but-in-retrospect-most-of-108232/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.



