"Take care, don't fight, and remember: if you do not choose to lead, you will forever be led by others. Find what scares you, and do it. And you can make a difference, if you choose to do so"
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The subtext is producer-brain realism: leadership isn’t a title, it’s a posture. A producer’s job is to choose constantly under uncertainty, to absorb risk so a project can exist at all. That’s why the quote frames courage not as swagger but as exposure therapy: “Find what scares you, and do it.” It’s not motivational-poster bravado; it’s a practical method for expanding your range, the way you build a career by taking the meeting you dread, pitching the idea that might flop, having the hard conversation you’ve rehearsed for months.
The final clause—“you can make a difference, if you choose to do so”—quietly rejects the cultural alibi of helplessness. It doesn’t promise victory, only consequence. In Straczynski’s world (and in the entertainment industry he comes from), narratives get written by whoever shows up, decides, and keeps deciding.
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| Topic | Leadership |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Straczynski, J. Michael. (n.d.). Take care, don't fight, and remember: if you do not choose to lead, you will forever be led by others. Find what scares you, and do it. And you can make a difference, if you choose to do so. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/take-care-dont-fight-and-remember-if-you-do-not-79814/
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Straczynski, J. Michael. "Take care, don't fight, and remember: if you do not choose to lead, you will forever be led by others. Find what scares you, and do it. And you can make a difference, if you choose to do so." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/take-care-dont-fight-and-remember-if-you-do-not-79814/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Take care, don't fight, and remember: if you do not choose to lead, you will forever be led by others. Find what scares you, and do it. And you can make a difference, if you choose to do so." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/take-care-dont-fight-and-remember-if-you-do-not-79814/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









