"Take care that no one hates you justly"
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Moral hygiene, not moral heroism: that is the bite of Publilius Syrus's line. "Take care" frames virtue as maintenance work, the daily tending of reputation and conduct. And the sting is in "justly". Syrus isn't begging you to be beloved; he's warning you against earning hatred you can't argue your way out of. In a world where enemies are inevitable, the unforgivable mistake is giving them a clean moral receipt.
The subtext is pragmatic, even slightly cynical. Hatred is treated as a social fact, like weather. You can’t control whether someone resents your success, your politics, your face. You can control whether your actions supply legitimate grounds for that resentment. "Justly" turns ethics into risk management: avoid abuses of power, casual cruelty, petty dishonesty - not only because they are wrong, but because they arm others with a righteousness that sticks.
Context matters. Publilius Syrus was a Syrian-born writer of mimes in late Republican Rome, a culture obsessed with honor, slander, and public standing, where being "in the wrong" could have real consequences. His sententiae are built to travel - compact, memorizable, useful in courtrooms and dinner parties alike. This one is a survival tip disguised as a maxim: if you must be hated, let it be for reasons that expose your opponent's bias, not your own vice.
The subtext is pragmatic, even slightly cynical. Hatred is treated as a social fact, like weather. You can’t control whether someone resents your success, your politics, your face. You can control whether your actions supply legitimate grounds for that resentment. "Justly" turns ethics into risk management: avoid abuses of power, casual cruelty, petty dishonesty - not only because they are wrong, but because they arm others with a righteousness that sticks.
Context matters. Publilius Syrus was a Syrian-born writer of mimes in late Republican Rome, a culture obsessed with honor, slander, and public standing, where being "in the wrong" could have real consequences. His sententiae are built to travel - compact, memorizable, useful in courtrooms and dinner parties alike. This one is a survival tip disguised as a maxim: if you must be hated, let it be for reasons that expose your opponent's bias, not your own vice.
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