"Take care to get what you like or you will be forced to like what you get"
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The subtext is about adaptation as capitulation. “Forced to like what you get” names the psychological trick we call rationalization: when the world hands you a life you didn’t choose, you start polishing it into a virtue so you can bear it. Shaw, a dramatist obsessed with hypocrisy and self-deception, targets the respectable art of making peace with disappointment. There’s also a jab at social systems that distribute outcomes unevenly. If you don’t actively shape your tastes and your circumstances, institutions, class expectations, and plain inertia will happily choose for you.
Context matters: Shaw wrote in an era where “knowing your place” passed for wisdom, and where the respectable path often meant throttling your appetites until they resembled duty. The quote reads like a manual for resisting that kind of quiet coercion. It’s not a Hallmark endorsement of “follow your bliss.” It’s closer to a hard-edged reminder that preferences are political: what you “like” is either something you pursue with intention or something you learn to accept because you have to.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shaw, George Bernard. (n.d.). Take care to get what you like or you will be forced to like what you get. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/take-care-to-get-what-you-like-or-you-will-be-29167/
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Shaw, George Bernard. "Take care to get what you like or you will be forced to like what you get." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/take-care-to-get-what-you-like-or-you-will-be-29167/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Take care to get what you like or you will be forced to like what you get." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/take-care-to-get-what-you-like-or-you-will-be-29167/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











