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Justice & Law Quote by Joyce Maynard

"Teach a child to play solitaire, and she'll be able to entertain herself when there's no one around. Teach her tennis, and she'll know what to do when she's on a court. But raise her to feel comfortable in nature, and the whole planet is her home"

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Maynard builds her case by making the first two lessons feel faintly cramped. Solitaire is a skill for absence, a private coping mechanism for empty rooms. Tennis is competence with tight boundaries: lines, rules, the designated court. Both are useful, both are small. Then she flips the scale with a single expansion move: comfort in nature isn’t a pastime, it’s a passport. The phrase “the whole planet is her home” lands less as whimsy than as a thesis about agency. Home stops being an address and becomes a kind of bodily ease in the world.

The subtext is quietly political and feminist. A girl who can “entertain herself” is being trained to be self-contained; a girl who can play tennis is being trained to perform in sanctioned spaces. But a girl who feels at home outdoors is being trained to take up space without permission. It’s an argument against the invisible fences that tell children - especially girls - where they belong and what counts as appropriate terrain.

Contextually, it reads like late-20th/early-21st-century parenting reframed as ecological and psychological literacy: raising a child for resilience in an era of screens, anxieties, and shrinking public commons. Maynard’s craft is in the escalation: she starts with wholesome, almost quaint activities, then reveals how small our “skills” can be if they don’t widen a person’s sense of belonging. The intent isn’t to dunk on games or sports; it’s to push for an education in freedom - one that makes solitude less like isolation and more like habitat.

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Maynard, Joyce. (2026, January 15). Teach a child to play solitaire, and she'll be able to entertain herself when there's no one around. Teach her tennis, and she'll know what to do when she's on a court. But raise her to feel comfortable in nature, and the whole planet is her home. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/teach-a-child-to-play-solitaire-and-shell-be-able-153658/

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Maynard, Joyce. "Teach a child to play solitaire, and she'll be able to entertain herself when there's no one around. Teach her tennis, and she'll know what to do when she's on a court. But raise her to feel comfortable in nature, and the whole planet is her home." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/teach-a-child-to-play-solitaire-and-shell-be-able-153658/.

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"Teach a child to play solitaire, and she'll be able to entertain herself when there's no one around. Teach her tennis, and she'll know what to do when she's on a court. But raise her to feel comfortable in nature, and the whole planet is her home." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/teach-a-child-to-play-solitaire-and-shell-be-able-153658/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Joyce Maynard (born November 5, 1953) is a Writer from USA.

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