"Tears are the symbol of the inability of the soul to restrain its emotion and retain its self command"
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The subtext is a 19th-century moral psychology that prizes composure as a form of dignity and, by extension, social competence. "Self command" evokes a small sovereign inside the person, tasked with keeping the inner realm orderly. When that sovereign can't "restrain" feeling, the leak becomes visible. The body becomes the place where private disorder goes public. That visibility is the point: tears are embarrassing not because they are irrational, but because they are legible. They announce you have been overrun.
Amiel's context matters. A Swiss thinker steeped in Protestant-inflected introspection and the era's faith in character as self-mastery, he treats emotional overflow as a threat to identity. Yet his sentence also betrays fascination with what defeats control. The "inability" he names is also a confession that the soul has limits. Tears mark the border where philosophy's ideal of command meets the human fact of being moved.
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| Topic | Sadness |
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Amiel, Henri Frederic. (2026, January 17). Tears are the symbol of the inability of the soul to restrain its emotion and retain its self command. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tears-are-the-symbol-of-the-inability-of-the-soul-61762/
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Amiel, Henri Frederic. "Tears are the symbol of the inability of the soul to restrain its emotion and retain its self command." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tears-are-the-symbol-of-the-inability-of-the-soul-61762/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Tears are the symbol of the inability of the soul to restrain its emotion and retain its self command." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/tears-are-the-symbol-of-the-inability-of-the-soul-61762/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







