"Temper is a weapon that we hold by the blade"
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As a playwright, he thinks in stage business. You can almost see the gesture - the character gripping too tightly, mistaking heat for strength, then flinching when it bites back. That’s the subtext: temper is performative. It announces, I cannot be crossed, but it also reveals, I am already compromised. The “blade” is pride, impulsivity, the loss of proportion; once you’re cut, you’re acting from pain rather than principle.
Barrie wrote in a late-Victorian/Edwardian Britain that prized composure as social currency. Self-control wasn’t just private virtue; it was a public signal of class, sanity, and authority. In that context, “temper” is socially radioactive: it can demote you instantly, making you look childish, unstable, or cruel. The line also carries a moral warning without sermonizing. It doesn’t ban anger; it reframes it. If anger is unavoidable, it must be handled by the hilt - directed, deliberate, owned. Otherwise it’s not a weapon at all, just a sharp edge you’re gripping to prove you’re tough while quietly bleeding out.
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| Topic | Anger |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barrie, James M. (2026, January 18). Temper is a weapon that we hold by the blade. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/temper-is-a-weapon-that-we-hold-by-the-blade-12601/
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MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Temper is a weapon that we hold by the blade." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/temper-is-a-weapon-that-we-hold-by-the-blade-12601/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.









