"Tennis is so competitive. I guess that's the way it has to be"
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Tennis is one of the few mainstream sports where you stand alone, mic’d up by your own nerves, with no clock to save you and no teammates to spread the blame. Monica Seles’s line lands because it sounds almost too plain for that pressure: “so competitive” followed by the soft shrug of “I guess.” It’s not a boast or a complaint. It’s a veteran’s acknowledgement that the brutality isn’t a glitch in the system; it’s the system.
The intent feels like emotional self-management. Seles isn’t romanticizing rivalry or selling a brand of “killer instinct.” She’s describing a reality that can’t be out-hustled with pep talk. The subtext is resignation laced with realism: if you want the purity of one-on-one competition, you also inherit its loneliness, its constant comparison, its unforgiving arithmetic of points and rankings.
Coming from Seles, the line also carries extra gravity. Her career is inseparable from the era’s hyper-intensity and from the trauma of being attacked on court in 1993, an event that exposed how obsession around athletes can spill into violence. In that light, “that’s the way it has to be” reads less like acceptance of sport-as-entertainment and more like acceptance of the hard boundaries required to keep showing up: you don’t get to rewrite tennis into something gentler. You either live with the knife-edge or you step away. The quietness is the point; it’s how competitors talk when they’ve run out of illusions.
The intent feels like emotional self-management. Seles isn’t romanticizing rivalry or selling a brand of “killer instinct.” She’s describing a reality that can’t be out-hustled with pep talk. The subtext is resignation laced with realism: if you want the purity of one-on-one competition, you also inherit its loneliness, its constant comparison, its unforgiving arithmetic of points and rankings.
Coming from Seles, the line also carries extra gravity. Her career is inseparable from the era’s hyper-intensity and from the trauma of being attacked on court in 1993, an event that exposed how obsession around athletes can spill into violence. In that light, “that’s the way it has to be” reads less like acceptance of sport-as-entertainment and more like acceptance of the hard boundaries required to keep showing up: you don’t get to rewrite tennis into something gentler. You either live with the knife-edge or you step away. The quietness is the point; it’s how competitors talk when they’ve run out of illusions.
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