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Time & Perspective Quote by Bill Condon

"That day I think we really saw each other for the first time. I mean, saw beyond the bag of bones on the outside. You take away her pretty and my plain and what you get underneath is about the same: a couple of lost girls looking to be found"

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The line lands because it dismantles the visual economy that usually runs teen stories: pretty versus plain, hot versus not, seen versus invisible. Bill Condon frames that hierarchy as literal costume - "her pretty and my plain" - something you can peel off like wardrobe. The phrase "bag of bones" is deliberately unglamorous, even a little gross, a quick slap at the camera’s tendency to sanctify faces and bodies. It forces a pivot from surfaces to need.

The emotional engine is recognition, but not the rom-com kind where being noticed fixes you. "A couple of lost girls looking to be found" is softer and sadder: it admits that both sides of the popularity divide are performing, both are hungry, both are waiting for someone else to name them real. The subtext is that identity is negotiated in mirrors - literal ones, social ones, the gaze of peers - and that "seeing" is an act of mercy, not just perception.

Condon’s intent, as a director, reads like a quiet manifesto about casting and camera grammar. He’s telling you where to point the lens: not at the “pretty,” not at the “plain,” but at the shared ache underneath. The sentence structure mirrors that stripping-away process, moving from the blunt physicality of bones to the vulnerable plural of "we" and "a couple". It’s a scene about intimacy that refuses romance as a solution and instead offers a rarer fantasy: being understood without being upgraded.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Condon, Bill. (2026, January 22). That day I think we really saw each other for the first time. I mean, saw beyond the bag of bones on the outside. You take away her pretty and my plain and what you get underneath is about the same: a couple of lost girls looking to be found. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-day-i-think-we-really-saw-each-other-for-the-184071/

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Condon, Bill. "That day I think we really saw each other for the first time. I mean, saw beyond the bag of bones on the outside. You take away her pretty and my plain and what you get underneath is about the same: a couple of lost girls looking to be found." FixQuotes. January 22, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-day-i-think-we-really-saw-each-other-for-the-184071/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That day I think we really saw each other for the first time. I mean, saw beyond the bag of bones on the outside. You take away her pretty and my plain and what you get underneath is about the same: a couple of lost girls looking to be found." FixQuotes, 22 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-day-i-think-we-really-saw-each-other-for-the-184071/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Bill Condon

Bill Condon (born October 22, 1955) is a Director from USA.

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