"That has always been it for me: family first"
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The line’s power is its economy. "It" reduces a whole moral calculus to a single, definitive priority, as if values are a ranking system and he’s settled it early. "Always" does heavy lifting too. It’s less about describing a consistent past than about claiming one, smoothing over compromises and contradictions that inevitably come with celebrity and ambition. If you’ve ever had to choose between the call time and the dinner table, "always" is aspirational as much as factual.
Banks’s era sharpens the subtext. Born in 1890, he lived through World War I, the interwar years, World War II, and the rise of mass media that turned performers into public property. In that context, "family first" becomes both privacy policy and moral credential: a way to stay legible, respectable, and anchored while fame pulls toward spectacle. It’s not sentimentality so much as a boundary drawn in plain language, meant to outlast applause.
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Banks, Leslie. "That has always been it for me: family first." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-has-always-been-it-for-me-family-first-126813/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That has always been it for me: family first." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-has-always-been-it-for-me-family-first-126813/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





