Fatherhood Quote by Atom Egoyan

"That is where the irony of the film comes off, in terms of the language it employs - where he tries desperately to be a 'TV Dad,' to give advice and it's so pat it becomes ridiculous"

Atom Egoyan, Director

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Egoyan’s point lands because it’s less a critique of one character than an autopsy of a whole media reflex: the urge to perform fatherhood in ready-made soundbites. A “TV Dad” isn’t a parent so much as a delivery system for prepackaged wisdom, the kind that arrives on cue, neatly resolving conflict in 22 minutes with a hug and a lesson. Egoyan hears the falseness in the language itself. When advice is “pat,” it’s not merely simplistic; it’s suspiciously frictionless, a script masquerading as care.

The irony he’s naming is a mismatch between stakes and style. The character “tries desperately” because the situation demands something messy, embodied, and specific - while the only tools he reaches for are generic lines built for broadcast comfort. That desperation is the tell: the more he leans on cliché, the more he exposes his incapacity to meet the moment authentically. The film’s humor (and discomfort) comes from watching sentimentality fail under pressure, turning earnest guidance into accidental parody.

Contextually, Egoyan is talking about cinema’s ability to weaponize familiarity. Everyone recognizes the cadence of TV-parent moralizing, which makes its collapse instantly legible. The character’s ridiculousness isn’t just personal; it’s cultural. We’ve inherited a template for “good dad” behavior from television, and Egoyan’s irony is that the template can’t love you back. It can only perform.

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Atom Egoyan (born July 19, 1960) is a Director from Canada.

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