"That made me feel very disturbed, because it never seemed to be about how much hard work was involved. Ever. It was about... 'hazel eyes'. It does help if you can brush that stuff off"
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The line “it never seemed to be about how much hard work was involved. Ever.” lands with the blunt rhythm of someone who has watched the same minimization repeat across rooms, years, and roles. “Ever” isn’t exaggeration so much as a survival verdict: stop expecting fairness from a system designed to reward the camera, not the hours. The subtext is gendered without needing to say so. For actresses especially, beauty markers become professional credentials and professional disqualifications at once, a constant audition you can’t rehearse for and can’t win.
“It does help if you can brush that stuff off” reads like advice, but it’s also an indictment. Emotional armor becomes an unofficial job requirement: if you can’t shrug off being appraised like merchandise, you’ll be eaten alive. Ormond’s intent is to name that distortion plainly and, quietly, to reclaim dignity for the invisible work underneath the close-up.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ormond, Julia. (2026, January 15). That made me feel very disturbed, because it never seemed to be about how much hard work was involved. Ever. It was about... 'hazel eyes'. It does help if you can brush that stuff off. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-made-me-feel-very-disturbed-because-it-never-169514/
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Ormond, Julia. "That made me feel very disturbed, because it never seemed to be about how much hard work was involved. Ever. It was about... 'hazel eyes'. It does help if you can brush that stuff off." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-made-me-feel-very-disturbed-because-it-never-169514/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That made me feel very disturbed, because it never seemed to be about how much hard work was involved. Ever. It was about... 'hazel eyes'. It does help if you can brush that stuff off." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-made-me-feel-very-disturbed-because-it-never-169514/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






