"That past is still within our living memory, a time when neighbour helped neighbour, sharing what little they had out of necessity, as well as decency"
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"Neighbour helped neighbour" is deliberately intimate and local, the opposite of abstract policy talk. It evokes the Ireland many people associate with economic hardship, tight communities, and informal safety nets - the kind of social fabric that tends to fray under prosperity, migration, and the privatization of everyday life. The phrase "sharing what little they had" points toward scarcity, but the real move is the double motive: "necessity, as well as decency". McAleese refuses to romanticize hardship, yet she also refuses to let empathy be reduced to mere survival strategy. Decency is presented as a choice, even when forced by circumstance.
The subtext is a rebuke to contemporary individualism and to a politics that treats social care as optional charity. By anchoring decency in lived experience, she strengthens the case for collective responsibility - in social policy, in reconciliation, and in civic life. It is the rhetoric of a stateswoman who knows that national identity arguments work best when they sound like kitchen-table truths: not grand theory, just a reminder of what people once did when it mattered, and what they could be asked to do again.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McAleese, Mary. (2026, January 16). That past is still within our living memory, a time when neighbour helped neighbour, sharing what little they had out of necessity, as well as decency. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-past-is-still-within-our-living-memory-a-114747/
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McAleese, Mary. "That past is still within our living memory, a time when neighbour helped neighbour, sharing what little they had out of necessity, as well as decency." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-past-is-still-within-our-living-memory-a-114747/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That past is still within our living memory, a time when neighbour helped neighbour, sharing what little they had out of necessity, as well as decency." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-past-is-still-within-our-living-memory-a-114747/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







