"That, sir, depends on whether I embrace your mistress or your politics"
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The subtext is also a neat inversion of moral hierarchy. In a culture that publicly clutched pearls about private vice while quietly tolerating it among elites, Wilkes suggests that adopting a man’s politics can be the greater transgression. That is: ideological defiance threatens status; adultery merely embarrasses it. It’s a crack about libertinism that doubles as a threat to the social order.
Context sharpens the cynicism. Wilkes, the scandal-prone journalist-MP who turned outrage into a brand, understood that politics in 18th-century Britain ran on patronage, gossip, and reputation. He was repeatedly punished for seditious libel and became a cause celebre for press freedom and the rights of voters. The quip is calibrated to that world: a man can survive being mocked for bedroom impropriety, but being laughed at for political authority is fatal. Wilkes doesn’t just insult; he turns the duel from honor to legitimacy, making the listener choose what kind of “embrace” they fear most.
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| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Art of the Political Putdown (Chris Lamb, Will Moredock, 2020) modern compilationISBN: 9781452183961 · ID: biS9DwAAQBAJ
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... Wilkes , “ Sir , I do not know whether you will die on the gallows or of the pox ! " Whereupon Wilkes responded , “ That , sir , depends on whether I embrace your principles or your mistress . ” There's no record of Montagu's response , or ... |
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