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Politics & Power Quote by John Wilkes

"That, sir, depends on whether I embrace your mistress or your politics"

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A perfect Georgian-era dagger: flirtatious on the surface, ferociously political underneath. John Wilkes answers a provocation (almost certainly about “embracing” something) by yoking two kinds of intimacy that respectable society pretended to keep separate: sex and power. The line works because it forces his target to admit which violation actually stings. If Wilkes embraces your mistress, he’s a cad. If he embraces your politics, he’s a traitor. Either way, the offended gentleman is exposed as someone who treats women and public life as personal property.

The subtext is also a neat inversion of moral hierarchy. In a culture that publicly clutched pearls about private vice while quietly tolerating it among elites, Wilkes suggests that adopting a man’s politics can be the greater transgression. That is: ideological defiance threatens status; adultery merely embarrasses it. It’s a crack about libertinism that doubles as a threat to the social order.

Context sharpens the cynicism. Wilkes, the scandal-prone journalist-MP who turned outrage into a brand, understood that politics in 18th-century Britain ran on patronage, gossip, and reputation. He was repeatedly punished for seditious libel and became a cause celebre for press freedom and the rights of voters. The quip is calibrated to that world: a man can survive being mocked for bedroom impropriety, but being laughed at for political authority is fatal. Wilkes doesn’t just insult; he turns the duel from honor to legitimacy, making the listener choose what kind of “embrace” they fear most.

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Later attribution: The Art of the Political Putdown (Chris Lamb, Will Moredock, 2020) modern compilationISBN: 9781452183961 · ID: biS9DwAAQBAJ
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Wilkes, John. (2026, February 12). That, sir, depends on whether I embrace your mistress or your politics. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-sir-depends-on-whether-i-embrace-your-170785/

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Wilkes, John. "That, sir, depends on whether I embrace your mistress or your politics." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-sir-depends-on-whether-i-embrace-your-170785/.

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"That, sir, depends on whether I embrace your mistress or your politics." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-sir-depends-on-whether-i-embrace-your-170785/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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John Wilkes (October 17, 1727 - December 26, 1797) was a Journalist from England.

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