"That sort of half sigh, which, accompanied by two or three slight nods of the head, is pity's small change in general society"
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The subtext is class discipline. In "general society", feeling too much is gauche; doing too little risks looking cold. So the respectable person settles on a middle currency: a quiet exhale, a minimal bowing of the head, enough to signal moral awareness without triggering obligation. Dickens understands that Victorian public life runs on these micro-acts of self-exoneration. The nod says, I recognize your hardship. The half-sigh adds a trace of sadness. Together they purchase distance.
Calling it "pity's small change" is also a jab at how the wealthy launder their conscience. Real assistance would cost: time, money, proximity, discomfort, political risk. The "small change" costs almost nothing and buys a lot - social approval, a sense of decency, the comforting illusion that one has participated in goodness. Dickens's intent isn't to ban pity, but to expose how easily it becomes a substitute for responsibility, a transaction that keeps inequality intact while letting everyone feel briefly, performatively humane.
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Dickens, Charles. (2026, January 15). That sort of half sigh, which, accompanied by two or three slight nods of the head, is pity's small change in general society. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-sort-of-half-sigh-which-accompanied-by-two-5615/
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Dickens, Charles. "That sort of half sigh, which, accompanied by two or three slight nods of the head, is pity's small change in general society." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-sort-of-half-sigh-which-accompanied-by-two-5615/.
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"That sort of half sigh, which, accompanied by two or three slight nods of the head, is pity's small change in general society." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-sort-of-half-sigh-which-accompanied-by-two-5615/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













