"That was just my own personal program: I didn't want to get too high over the good moments because I didn't want to be saddened and depressed when things didn't go as I had planned"
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The subtext is about control in a profession built on volatility. Games swing on bad whistles, hot streaks, a rolled ankle, a teammate’s off night. If you let the good moments intoxicate you, you start playing the story of yourself instead of the possession in front of you. And if you attach your mood to outcomes, the inevitable losses don’t just sting; they hijack your identity. Erving is describing an early version of what we now call mental skills training, but without the self-help gloss: emotional insulation as competitive advantage.
Context matters because “Dr. J” lived in an era when vulnerability was rarely marketed as leadership, especially for superstar men in contact sports. This is restraint disguised as humility. It’s also a subtle rebuke to the idea that greatness is pure swagger. His discipline isn’t about being stone-faced; it’s about staying usable to himself when the plan breaks, which is when careers (and seasons) actually get decided.
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| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Erving, Julius. (2026, January 15). That was just my own personal program: I didn't want to get too high over the good moments because I didn't want to be saddened and depressed when things didn't go as I had planned. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-was-just-my-own-personal-program-i-didnt-160841/
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Erving, Julius. "That was just my own personal program: I didn't want to get too high over the good moments because I didn't want to be saddened and depressed when things didn't go as I had planned." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-was-just-my-own-personal-program-i-didnt-160841/.
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"That was just my own personal program: I didn't want to get too high over the good moments because I didn't want to be saddened and depressed when things didn't go as I had planned." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-was-just-my-own-personal-program-i-didnt-160841/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



