"That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong"
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The intent is pastoral but pragmatic. As a clergyman writing in an era when churches served as civic glue as much as spiritual refuge, Boetcker is warning against the seductions of the crowd: the easy yes, the convenient silence, the small compromises that feel like social peace but accumulate into self-contempt. “Displease the people” is doing a lot of work. It anticipates backlash, gossip, reputational cost. The quote isn’t naive about consequences; it argues that consequences are unavoidable and urges you to pick the kind you can live with.
Subtextually, it’s a critique of moral outsourcing. “What you know is right” assumes an interior moral compass, not a popularity poll. That’s a distinctly Protestant, early-20th-century American ethic: character as an inner discipline, not a public performance. Boetcker’s rhetorical move is to shrink “the people” down to a passing mood and enlarge the self into a lifetime witness. The sting is that integrity isn’t proven in private convictions; it’s proven at the moment you decide you can tolerate being disliked.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Boetcker, William J. H. (2026, January 16). That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-you-may-retain-your-self-respect-it-is-116640/
Chicago Style
Boetcker, William J. H. "That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-you-may-retain-your-self-respect-it-is-116640/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/that-you-may-retain-your-self-respect-it-is-116640/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.









