"That's a good weight...for a small woman"
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On the surface, it's praise: the person lifted something impressive. The pause implied by the ellipsis is where the subtext lives. It signals a recalibration, a quick mental move from "good" to "good, given what I expect from you". The remark preserves the speaker's authority by staying generous while still policing the boundary of who gets to be called strong without qualifiers. It's not open hostility; it's something more culturally durable: a casual gatekeeping that can be defended as "just being honest."
The context matters because bodybuilding is built on measurement, comparison, and categories - weight classes, divisions, symmetry, proportion. That language easily slides into social sorting. Yates' era also helped cement the ideal of the hyper-disciplined male physique as a kind of moral achievement, which makes "small woman" function less as description than as diminishment: smaller body, smaller expectations, smaller claim on the room.
The line works (and stings) because it dramatizes how praise can be conditional. It names strength, then immediately limits who gets full credit for it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Yates, Dorian. (2026, January 15). That's a good weight...for a small woman. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-a-good-weightfor-a-small-woman-172954/
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Yates, Dorian. "That's a good weight...for a small woman." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-a-good-weightfor-a-small-woman-172954/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"That's a good weight...for a small woman." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/thats-a-good-weightfor-a-small-woman-172954/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






